Please arrive at least 20–30 minutes before the ceremony begins so you have time to park, grab a seat, and settle in. We’ll start promptly at [insert ceremony time].

10PM, you can leave your cars there too overnight

Cocktail attire! Dress to impress—but also to dance, mingle, and be comfy. The venue is indoors and outdoors, so we recommend block heels, wedges, or flats over stilettos.

No. You will need to travel between the ceremony and reception locations —the ceremony will be held at a beautiful outside setting while the reception will be hosted in the Estate mansion which is also inside and out.

We will have golf carts to drive guests who have difficulty walking throughout the venue.

If you have any special requests or needs, please do not hesitate to let us know in the Contact us section.

The ceremony and cocktail hour will be outdoors. The reception will be indoors with open windows and access to the outdoors—check the weather and bring a light layer for the night, just in case!

ISeptember is one of the best months in San Diego! Expect warm, sunny days with average highs in the mid-70s to low 80s °F (24–28°C), and cooler evenings in the low 60s °F (15–17°C). It’s typically dry with little chance of rain—but we still recommend bringing a light jacket or sweater for the evening, especially if the celebration goes late!

Your invitation will specify if you have a plus one. If you’re not sure, feel free to reach out!

We love your little ones, but we’re keeping the celebration adults-only. If you received an exception for your child, it will be marked down in your invitation. Thank you for understanding!

Transportation will not be provided, so we recommend carpooling or using rideshare services. Parking is available at the venue, and overnight parking is allowed as long as you pick up your car hungover the following morning.

Yes! We’ll have an open bar with beer, wine, and a few signature cocktails. Cheers!

Sorry yall, no shots! As fun as that sounds, we would like to stay classy and cordial :D

Please let us know in your RSVP if you have any allergies or dietary needs or message us directly through the Contact Us section—we’ll make sure you’re taken care of.

Absolutely! Share the love using our wedding hashtag: #tiernantiestheknot. We just ask that you be respectful during the ceremony (phones away, please).

For all guests in the bridal party, we will be hosting a rehearsal the day before at (location). For all other guests, nope, just the main event on 9/19. We will have an after party at the Bridal party Airbnb - so if you would like to attend, let one of us know.

We’ll be serving a [buffet/plated/sit-down/family-style] dinner with a mix of [insert cuisine or menu style, like California-fresh, Italian favorites, tacos + tequila, etc.]. You won’t go hungry!

After the ceremony, we will head to the Orchid bar and main area for Cocktail hour. After cocktail hour, we will have dinner.

Yes! Check out our [Things to Do] section for ideas on where to eat, explore, and unwind while you're here. Think beaches, tacos, and maybe a winery or two.

We’ll party until 10PM! After that, feel free to keep the vibes going—just let us know if you're interested in attending an unofficial after-party.

Yes, you can find our registry [insert link]. Your presence is the greatest gift, but if you'd like to contribute, we appreciate it!

We’ll miss you! Please update your RSVP as soon as you can or let one of us know so we can plan accordingly.

Hell no. Just have fun!

If you are feeling sick though, please stay at home.

Oh yes—bring your best moves. We expect the dance floor to be full all night.